Based Advice on Modern Dating
Based Advice on Modern Dating
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This blog breaks down key dating topics from photos to texting into plain English.
Some posts distill my YouTube videos into written advice optimized for real results in online dating.
You can also check out my full YouTube channel for more breakdowns, or read my story here to see how I went from struggling on dating apps to helping other guys succeed.
Everyone knows the stereotype. Women get all the matches on Tinder, and guys are left swiping into the void. But in 2025, that story isn’t as simple as it seems. While women still receive more likes overall, Tinder’s algorithm, user behavior, and verification systems have evolved, and the gap is closing for men who know what they’re doing.
This post breaks down the real data behind Tinder’s match dynamics in 2025, explaining why women still get more matches, why most of those matches don’t go anywhere, and how smart men are turning fewer matches into more real-life dates. You’ll learn what the algorithm actually rewards, how women filter attention, and how to position your profile to stand out in today’s oversaturated app culture.
Tinder has long been called “the hookup app,” but in 2025, that stereotype is breaking down fast. With new features, smarter algorithms, and a more mature user base, Tinder is no longer just a playground for casual flings. It’s a reflection of how you use it. The truth is, the app doesn’t decide whether your dates turn into hookups or relationships. You do.
This post dives into the real data and cultural shifts shaping Tinder in 2025, breaking down why the “hookup culture” label is outdated, what women actually want now, and how your profile energy determines the type of people you attract. Whether you’re looking for something casual or a genuine connection, this guide shows how to use Tinder with intention and get results that last.
Most guys on Tinder keep making the same mistakes: bad photos, lazy bios, and boring messages that go nowhere. In 2025, competition on the app is fiercer than ever, and if you’re still using the same tired approach as everyone else, you’re invisible. The good news? Standing out isn’t about doing more. It’s about not doing what every other guy does wrong.
This guide breaks down exactly what not to do on Tinder in 2025 including the behaviors, photos, and habits that silently kill your results. From the subtle algorithm mistakes that tank your visibility to the messaging habits that make women lose interest fast, you’ll learn how to avoid the traps, fix your profile, and finally start seeing real matches turn into real dates.
One of the biggest mysteries on Tinder isn’t how to match — it’s why so many matches go absolutely nowhere. In 2025, countless men still hesitate to send the first message, letting silence kill opportunities before they even start. Whether it’s fear of rejection, overthinking, or the assumption that she should initiate, this hesitation is the fastest way to stay stuck.
This guide breaks down exactly why guys don’t message first on Tinder, how women interpret the silence, and how the algorithm punishes inactivity. More importantly, it gives you a practical playbook of openers, momentum-building tactics, and mindset shifts so you can stand out in today’s crowded dating app world. If you’re tired of dead matches, this post shows you how to fix it.
Most men on Tinder don’t realize that their photos determine 80% of their success. In 2025, women are swiping past blurry selfies, gym mirror pics, and awkward group shots faster than ever. If your lineup doesn’t instantly make you look confident and interesting, the algorithm will bury you and matches won’t respond.
This guide breaks down exactly what photos attract girls on Tinder in 2025 — from the proven six-photo blueprint to style, grooming, and subtle cues women notice right away. Whether you’re using DIY shots or investing in pro photography, you’ll see how to transform weak pictures into a profile that actually gets swipes.
Struggling to get matches on Tinder? You’re not alone — most guys swipe endlessly and barely see results. The truth is, Tinder in 2025 isn’t about luck. It’s about playing the algorithm the right way: strong photos, a short bio that sparks replies, and smart swiping habits that push you to the top of the deck.
This in-depth guide shows you exactly how to get more matches on Tinder in 2025. From photo strategy and bio templates to proven messaging tactics and premium feature tips, you’ll learn how to fix the mistakes holding you back and finally start seeing consistent results.
Tinder doesn’t come with an instruction manual, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t rules. Most guys break them without realizing it — and that’s why they get stuck with low matches, ghosting, and endless frustration. Women notice when you cut corners, and so does the algorithm.
In this guide, I cover the unwritten rules of Tinder in 2025: how to set up a profile women actually swipe on, the do’s and don’ts of messaging, and the subtle etiquette that makes the difference between being ignored or landing dates. If you’ve ever felt like Tinder “doesn’t work,” this post will show you why — and how to finally start winning.
Most Tinder matches go nowhere because guys open with weak, boring texts. In 2025, women are swamped with matches, so your first message has to stand out if you want a reply.
This guide breaks down the best first texts on Tinder, complete with examples and strategies that actually work today. You’ll learn what to say, what to avoid, and how to turn matches into real conversations that lead to dates.
Still struggling to get matches on Tinder? This updated 2025 guide breaks down everything you need to know — from building a profile with the right photos and bio to understanding the Tinder algorithm, messaging women, and deciding if premium features are worth it. Learn the strategies that actually work for men today and avoid the mistakes that kill most profiles.
Why do Asian men struggle so much on dating apps, even when they’re successful in real life? This post dives into the unique challenges Asian men face in the online dating world including algorithm bias, stereotypes, and cultural pressures, and it explains why traditional advice often falls short. Backed by years of firsthand experience and client results, Based Vincent shares insights into what actually works and how strategic photography, profile optimization, and coaching can help Asian men stand out and succeed on dating apps.
Looking for the best dating app photographer to finally start getting matches? This guide breaks down exactly what to look for in a profile photographer, why most "professional" photos don’t work on dating apps, and how to avoid wasting time and money on the wrong person.
Whether you're just starting out or have tried everything, this post will show you what actually matters when choosing the right expert for your dating profile.
Struggling to get matches on Hinge? Your photos are the #1 reason. This guide breaks down the best Hinge photo ideas, lineup strategies, and mistakes to avoid so you can finally stand out. Learn how to choose your first photo, build a high-converting profile lineup, and use prompts that actually match your vibe.
Whether you’re in NYC, LA, or anywhere in between, these tips will help you create a Hinge profile that gets real results.
Walking shots are one of the most underrated but effective photo types for dating apps like Tinder and Hinge.
They highlight confidence, movement, and style in a natural way that stands out from stiff selfies or awkward group shots.
Learn why I use walking shots in nearly every client photoshoot and how they can upgrade your profile instantly.
I didn’t become a dating coach because I was naturally good at dating. I became one because I struggled, figured it out, and saw how many Asian men were still stuck.
This post dives into my full journey: what made dating so difficult as an Asian guy, why pickup didn’t work for me, and how I built a system that gets real results for introverted men like us.
If you’ve ever felt overlooked or frustrated on dating apps, this is the story (and strategy) you’ve been waiting for.
As an Asian dating coach, I helped Steven, a 29-year-old optometrist from Texas, go from struggling on dating apps to landing real dates and eventually a girlfriend. This blog post breaks down our coaching journey: how we revamped his dating profile, improved his photos, and built confidence step by step.
If you're an Asian guy tired of being overlooked, this success story shows what’s possible with the right strategy and guidance.
Want to see more client results? Explore the Portfolio here.
Struggling with dating app results? Learn how to take high-quality, attractive, and interesting dating app photos that actually convert to more matches and better dates.
Discover how average guys can succeed on dating apps by mastering profile optimization, high-quality photos, and effective messaging. This step-by-step guide explains how dating app algorithms work, how to improve your ELO score, and what it takes to get more matches and dates in a competitive online dating market.
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