Asian Dating Coach Helps Optometrist 10x Matches with Better Photos and Messaging 

When Steven arrived in New York, Vincent, a dating app photographer for men, guided him through his first professional photoshoot.

From expression coaching to outfit selection, every shot was tailored to highlight Steven’s strengths while staying true to his personality.

“I never really knew how to pose, but Vincent helped me look taller, more confident, and more natural.”

Each outfit and location brought out a different vibe (chill, stylish, and dateable), which is exactly what women respond to on dating apps. 

Steven's first date post-revamp ended in success with dessert, a walk in the park, a kiss, and more. While not every date was perfect, each one helped him improve.

From an awkward wine-tasting in Victoria to improvising a last-minute hotel logistics move in Houston, Steven applied what he learned to real-world scenarios.

“You can’t wait around hoping something will happen. Sometimes you’ve just got to take the lead and create the opportunity.”

He also learned to read signals and adjust. On one date, he correctly sensed the woman wasn’t ready for intimacy and backed off respectfully, later earning a second chance.

What’s most impressive about Steven’s journey is how fast he put everything into action. 

Within days of getting his profile set up, he was already landing dates and navigating real-world dating dynamics with confidence. From awkward first impressions to closing a same-day lay, he went through the full dating spectrum in a matter of weeks.

And just shortly after this video discussion, Steven ended up getting into a relationship. He used the same principles, mindset, and strategies discussed here that were built on improving his appearance, owning his vibe, and learning how to lead interactions so he could naturally escalate things with someone who genuinely clicked with him.