How an Asian Dating Coach Helped This Optometrist 10x His Matches

When Steven arrived in New York, Vincent coached him through his first professional photoshoot. 

They worked on posing, expression, and styling, all while keeping it natural and true to Steven’s personality.

“I never really knew how to pose for photos, but Vincent showed me how to angle things to highlight my strengths and downplay my height.”

Each outfit and location was chosen to reflect a different aspect of Steven’s identity as chill, stylish, and confident. The results spoke for themselves.

Steven's first date post-revamp ended in success with dessert, a walk in the park, a kiss, and more. While not every date was perfect, each one helped him improve.

From an awkward wine-tasting in Victoria to improvising a last-minute hotel logistics move in Houston, Steven applied what he learned to real-world scenarios.

“You can’t wait around hoping something will happen. Sometimes you’ve just got to take the lead and create the opportunity.”

He also learned to read signals and adjust. On one date, he correctly sensed the woman wasn’t ready for intimacy and backed off respectfully, later earning a second chance.

What’s most impressive about Steven’s journey is how fast he put everything into action. Within days of getting his profile set up, he was already landing dates and navigating real-world dating dynamics with confidence. From awkward first impressions to closing a same-day lay, he went through the full dating spectrum in a matter of weeks.

And just shortly after this video discussion, Steven ended up getting into a relationship. He used the same principles, mindset, and strategies discussed here that were built on improving his appearance, owning his vibe, and learning how to lead interactions so he could naturally escalate things with someone who genuinely clicked with him.